The most capable men I knew on the water weren't running hot. They were settled. They'd learned to rest between the hard moments. When the hard moment arrived, they had something to give.
Really enjoyed this piece. When I was growing up I always heard that some peoples had hundreds of words for snow. It feels like the English language desperately needs more words for acceptance. It was only recently that I learnt that the word didn't mean "I wholeheartedly agree with all of this, sign me up". I wish there was a better way of talking about peaceful reconciliation with our feelings.
I've given this a lot of thought, still can't eloquently answer. I suspect this is why we so often reach for stories to explain! Sounds lofty but it's true.
Boom. Metabolically hypervigilance is so expensive - it is guaranteed to wear us down and make us less effective.
Yes. It’s exhausting!
Really enjoyed this piece. When I was growing up I always heard that some peoples had hundreds of words for snow. It feels like the English language desperately needs more words for acceptance. It was only recently that I learnt that the word didn't mean "I wholeheartedly agree with all of this, sign me up". I wish there was a better way of talking about peaceful reconciliation with our feelings.
A clear answer isn't necessary. I suspect this is what Rilke was pointing to when he said "live the questions."
Love that: we need more words for acceptance. English was not built for interconnectedness, non-dual experience, or peace.
What does the word ‘acceptance’ mean to you now?
I've given this a lot of thought, still can't eloquently answer. I suspect this is why we so often reach for stories to explain! Sounds lofty but it's true.